It’s so disappointing how a lot of our mothers, specifically speaking in the African community, will encourage us daughters to tolerate and stay in bad marriages because many of them settled and tolerated our fathers.

Her honesty is so commendable, great watch

It sounds like the husband had an avoidant attachment and she is anxious. This is a very common dynamic.

Thank you for sharing . May God restore to you anything and everything you have lost. l can't imagine the pain of losing a baby .

Bless you for your transparency. May God restore you

Thank you YouTube algorithm! I’ve never heard of either of you but was so enlightened. A wise convo and hope it blows up

I can almost never seat through long interviews but there’s so much wisdom here ..

Bami! The human, humaning right.

"Life is about making mistakes." So simple buy so true

Love your vulnerability God bless you

So much to unpack here very good episode HeysisUK 🏾

A man that can’t comfort his wife going through a miscarriage is not a man

Thankyou for sharing your life experiences with others it isn't an easy subject to talk about and to expose the trials of the journey especially as women. When you exposed your health journey and said you have Lupus it made me think about the singer Tony Braxton, she also has the autoimmune disease and has experienced many trials throughout her life with it but she is a survivor and it hasn't stopped her from achieving her goals.

I didn't expect to watch this through and enjoy her energy. It is amazing! I have learnt a lot.

Thank you Bami for this book

Empathy is the word, he had no empathy for you nor did he truly see you as a human that you are and that in itself is sad. When we say marry someone kind we mean someone that is kind regardless of who you are to them. Someone that can show some form of agape love